Online dating guy doesn't want to meet
The dating apps condition guys to feel like dating is like playing the slot machines at the Venetian.
They can conceptualize that they just won the jackpot by meeting a smart, fun and pretty woman who they connect with, but the slot machine (aka the dating app) encourages them to “keep playing.”They suffer from what one of my business partners and matchmaking mogul, Patti Stanger, "The Million Dollar Matchmaker," pinpoints…
A part of me wants to say sorry to all of the men who may think that I am portraying their entire species as horn dogs, but another, much bigger part of me thinks #sorrynotsorry. This is the single most misinterpreted fact about men that women cannot seem to wrap their heads around, because sex for women is totally opposite.
Most women would never even dream of sleeping with a majority of the different men in their lives and are way more discerning when it comes down to who they will actually sleep with.
If you are a woman who is actually looking for a relationship, these three words will help you discern: close thy legs.
If you are single and want to be in a committed relationship, make it a new rule that you will stop engaging in casual sex with guys who you are dating casually.
When men have sex, they release dopamine, which is simply a surge of pleasure.
It was really good for them, but they are not bonded to you based on the fact alone that you had sex.
Ask them if they would sleep with their female econ professor from college.
Men whose primary way of meeting women in real life have less options, so when they do meet an incredible women like yourself, they get that it is difficult to find such a catch.
Men who primarily meet women through apps experience the same feelings of frustration and have the understanding that meeting an incredible woman is challenging, but they have a Vegas gambling mentality when it comes to dating.
But, to quote another great blockbuster, "He's Just Not That Into You," this is the exception, not the rule. But, whether we want to admit it or not, sex is just different for women.
It also makes this rule inconvenient because sex is incredible. When women have sex, we release the hormone oxytocin which is the “cuddle” hormone that literally makes us experience feelings of love, happiness and connection.